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The Marriage Plot by Jeffrey Eugenides

Jeffrey Eugenides’ third novel is another brilliant work of art that will undoubtedly find its place in the canon of great American literature right next to the likes of David Foster Wallace and Jonathan Franzen.  This is a story of coming of age– in every which way– from the physical to the intellectual, the emotional, and the spiritual.  It is a grand journey that is made via the characters of two young men and one young woman whose lives intersect throughout four years of college and across the landscape of suburban, small town, and big city America to the grand boulevards of Paris and other such places in Europe, and eventually even to the filthy streets of Calcutta and Varanasi.

It isn’t a new theme, really– we know that in order to arrive, one must first go away– but it is presented with such finesse that one might think Eugenides invented it!  And so that is what our trio does– they go away, each of them looking for love and the meaning of life.  But as we know again, it is never the destination but the journey itself that reveals the answers to those elusive concepts that actually do not come wrapped, labeled, and ready for the taking.  The greatest lesson in the pursuit of love and the meaning of life is perhaps the truth that what you see is not what you get– and what you get might be just what you need.

I truly savored this novel on so many levels:  the frequent references to Michigan– Detroit, in particular; the world travels that included my own motherland, India; and the deep and thoughtful spiritual journeys undertaken were illuminating through and through. 

The title, by the way, might be a bit misleading, because the plot one encounters in this novel is a much bigger one. 

Thanks to Eugenides, the genre of the novel is very much alive and kicking! 

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William Galston: SOTU 2012: An Analysis of President Obama's Speech

In his 2012 State of the Union Address, Barack Obama issued a ringing call for government to take the lead in rebuilding an economy that works for all Americans and to revive the promise of a more cooperative politics that carried him to the White House in 2008. While many of the specific measures he urged are likely to resonate with the public, it remains to be seen whether he can persuade the majority of Americans to set aside their long-festering mistrust of government and give him a mandate to pursue an aggressive policy agenda.

What about the specifics? In advance of President Obama’s State of the Union address, I laid out five things to listen for. Against that template, let’s look more closely at what he said.

#1: For better or worse, an incumbent president’s record is at the heart of his reelection prospects. He cannot run away from that record; he must run on it. So what is the narrative that links the crises of 2008-2009 and the disappointments of 2010-2011 to our hopes for a brighter future?

Toward the beginning of his speech, Obama offered his account of our recent economic history. Even before the recession, he said, jobs began going overseas while wages and incomes for most American were stagnating. And then the crisis hit, sparked by mortgages sold to people who couldn’t afford them and inadequately regulated financial institutions who made bad bets with other people’s money. He reminded the country that in the six months before he took office, the economy lost four million jobs, and another four million in the early months of his presidency. Since then, however, the private sector — led by manufacturing — has created millions of new jobs. And so, he concluded, “The state of our Union is getting stronger. And we’ve come too far to turn back now.” Rather than changing course, the task before us is to “build on this momentum.”

#2: The American people know that the U.S. economy has changed fundamentally and that the “success story” of the future will differ from those in the past. But what is that story?

In broad terms, Obama is betting on the continued revival of U.S. manufacturing, backed by targeted public investments in sectors such as clean energy and infrastructure. As he has before, he called for a major effort in the areas of education and training as well as support for basic research. While globalization is here to stay, he added, we cannot allow our competitors to victimize us with unfair trade practices, and he advocated a new Trade Enforcement Unit that will be charged with investigating “unfair trade practices in countries like China.” And to accelerate domestic job creation, he urged corporate tax reform that ends subsidies for outsourcing while reducing taxes for companies that remain, and hire, in America.

#3: The plight of hard-working Americans — those struggling to remain in the middle class and those struggling to get there — must be front and center. How did the president frame his appeal to this bedrock of our economy and society?

As he did in his Kansas speech last month, Obama invoked a country and economy where “everyone gets a fair shot, everyone does their fair share, and everyone plays by the same set of rules.” Symbolizing these principles, he called for tax reforms that follow the “Buffett rule” — namely, “If you make more than $1 million a year, you should not pay less than 30 percent in taxes.” At the same time, the president virtually dropped the theme of inequality, which had figured centrally in the Kansas speech. This was a wise shift: in America’s public culture, the principle of fair opportunity is more powerful than is equality of wealth and income.

#4: Public trust in our governing institutions is at or near all-time lows. To the extent that Obama’s agenda revolves around an activist government, how did he seek to persuade Americans that its policies can actually improve their lives?

While acknowledging public cynicism about government and calling for reforms of Congress and the executive branch, the president appeared to be hoping that the content of his economic agenda would trump doubts about the effectiveness of the public sector. He may well be underestimating the intensity of negative public sentiment and overestimating its willingness to accept what many will portray as a new burst of activism.

#5: Barack Obama is not just a candidate; he’s the president, and the people expect him to speak as the president. How did he balance his strategy of drawing the line with the Republicans against the imperative of conducting himself as the president of all the people?

For the most part, Obama addressed the country as president rather than party leader. While giving no ground on his key priorities, he spoke of differences between the parties more in sorrow than in anger and tried to identify some common ground, even on the core issue of the role of government. He called on everyone to “lower the temperature in this town” and to “end the notion that the two parties must be locked in a perpetual campaign of mutual destruction.” And he observed that “when we act together, there is nothing the United States of America can’t achieve.

Throughout his speech, Obama invoked the principles of fairness, collective action, and common purpose. Conspicuously absent was the theme on which the Republican Party rests its case — namely, individual liberty — a contrast that prefigures a 2012 general election waged over clashing partisan orientations as well as competing accounts of the president’s record.

Cross-posted from Brookings.edu. Read more from the Brookings Institution here.

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Mariska Hargitay: Personal Fouls

In September 2011, less than two months before the dismaying news started emerging from State College, Pennsylvania, NBC aired an episode of Law & Order: Special Victims Unit that tackled the rarely discussed topic of sexual abuse of boys and men. “Personal Fouls” told the story of a long-time, respected coach sexually abusing the boys on his teams over many years. Then came Penn State. Then came Syracuse. Then Poly Prep in Brooklyn. The stories of predators and prey, of complicity and cover-ups, of shame and fear and pain and isolation, are harrowing. Unfortunately, they won’t be the last. We cannot change what happened, but we can change how willing we are to talk about it. And before our attention turns elsewhere, we can seize this moment to shed some light into the darkness that surrounds this issue.

An estimated one in six men, or nearly 19 million adult males in the United States, have had an unwanted or abusive sexual experience in childhood. The median age for reported sexual abuse, male and female, is 9 years old. Male survivors are even more likely than women to bear the burden of their trauma alone, as they are less likely to disclose their abuse. And perhaps most startlingly, men are far less likely to know they have been abused. In a study of men and women with documented histories of sexual abuse — abuse so serious it warranted the intervention of a social service agency — 64 percent of the women considered themselves to have been sexually abused. Only 16 percent of the men did.

The FBI recently took a significant step to break through the secrecy that surrounds male survivors of sexual abuse and violence by changing how the Uniform Crime Report defines rape. For the first time in its 80-year existence, the definition of rape will include male victims, allowing our national statistics on sexual violence to reflect more accurately what is happening in our communities.

We as a society must build on this achievement and take further steps to acknowledge that sexual violence affects men and boys. We must commit ourselves to engaging men in the movement to address, prevent and, one day, end all sexual violence. Two organizations are already leading the way in this effort: 1in6 is a national organization that helps men who have had unwanted or abusive sexual experiences in childhood live healthier, happier lives; and A CALL TO MEN is galvanizing a national movement of men committed to ending violence and discrimination against women and girls. Each in their own way, these organizations use information, support and compassion to dispel the isolation that male survivors experience. They promote healthy relationships, and they boldly redefine “manhood.”

At Joyful Heart, the foundation I started in 2004 to help survivors of sexual assault, domestic violence and child abuse heal and reclaim their lives, we are proud to share in the vision of one day ending violence against all people. We hope to send this message to all survivors: We hear you. We believe you. We feel for you. You are not alone. And your healing is our priority.

I invite you to watch the re-airing of “Personal Fouls” tonight on NBC, guest starring the NBA’s Carmelo Anthony and Chris Bosh. I hope it will inspire you to think and talk about the issue of sexual abuse of boys and men. And I hope it will inspire you to take action — on behalf of your child, your spouse, your friend, your co-worker, yourself — and join me in the effort to engage men in the movement to end sexual abuse and violence. To learn more about this important issue, please visit men.joyfulheartfoundation.org.

Mariska Hargitay is the Emmy Award-winning star of Law & Order: Special Victims Unit on NBC and the founder of the Joyful Heart Foundation. Joyful Heart’s mission is to heal, educate and empower survivors of sexual assault, domestic violence and child abuse and to shed light into the darkness that surrounds these issues.

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Wheat Dalia Savory Pongal With Peanuts: Who Says You Need Rice?

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Think You're All That? Why Being Narcissistic May Put Your Heart at Risk

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Everybody knows somebody like this: the self-obsessed, self-congratulatory type with an outsize sense of entitlement and a deluded sense of superiority. He turns every conversation back to himself, prattling on about his own opinions and thoughts, but never deigns to ask about you.

That narcissistic personality can take a toll — and not just on the listeners. It turns out that the more narcissistic a person is, the more likely he (and, yes, it’s especially true of men) is to have health problems like heart disease and hypertension.

Sara Konrath, a psychologist at University of Michigan, studied 106 male and female undergraduate students, measuring their levels of narcissism and the stress hormone cortisol. Previous studies have found that people who score high on the narcissism scale show elevated levels of cortisol when threatened. So Konrath and her colleagues wanted to plumb the cortisol connection more deeply, to see if narcissists have higher levels of the stress hormone overall.

MORE: Narcissists Know They’re Obnoxious, But Love Themselves All the Same

Indeed, that’s what they found. The researchers measured cortisol levels in the students’ saliva and then gave them a 40-item questionnaire to assess their narcissistic tendencies. The test assessed variously adaptive forms of narcissism: some narcissistic qualities can be useful, leading to stronger leadership and authority skills as well as self-confidence, while others are less so because they are more focused on exploitation and entitlement.

Interestingly, Konrath and her team found that people who scored higher on the exploitative aspects of narcissism showed higher levels of cortisol, while those who scored higher on the more positive aspects of narcissism did not. And the trend was more pronounced in men than in women, probably due to the fact that more men tend to be narcissistic.

The consequences of chronically high cortisol levels have been well documented in previous studies. Cortisol, which tends to rise when people feel threatened or anxious, activates the body’s stress response, elevating the heart rate, sharpening the senses and burning a lot of energy to keep the body on alert. Activating this system when it’s needed — if you’re being chased by a saber-toothed cat, for example — is critical for survival. But a constant flow of cortisol can take a toll on the body, stressing the heart and the blood vessels and setting the stage for heart disease.

People who are narcissistic tend to be defensive, becoming aggressive when their superiority is threatened, says Konrath, and that style of coping can elevate cortisol and make the heart more vulnerable to disease.

Biologically, she says, narcissists with negative personality traits looked very similar to people with anxiety disorders. But they differed in one respect that may make them even more susceptible to cortisol’s damaging health effects. “When people have anxiety disorders, they recognize [it] and talk about feeling anxious and under stress,” she says. “For people who are narcissistic, this seems to be happening at a physiological level but for some reason the people aren’t feeling stress, which makes it potentially more toxic because they don’t seek help.”

MORE: Is TV Teaching Kids to Value Fame Above All?

The higher cortisol levels found among the higher-scoring narcissists suggest that they perceived even the task of filling out a questionnaire in the lab to be a potentially threatening situation, and one in which they needed to be on their guard in order to appear superior or in control, compared with the other participants.

Maintaining the narcissistic personality, in other words, is similar to keeping the body under stress, and Konrath says that’s particularly worrisome given the rising rates of narcissism in the U.S. “It makes me wonder what the long term health implications of this will be,” she says.

The findings also suggest that both primary care physicians and mental health professionals need to be more aware of the connection between mind and body, and appreciate that personality can influence our health in potentially serious ways. “People who work with mental health populations should realize that if people show signs of narcissism, then that personality is probably taking a toll on their body,” she says, and those individuals might benefit from some simple stress-relieving therapies.

MORE: Why Are College Students Reporting Record-High Levels of Stress?

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Average Is Over: OpEd by Tom Friedman

 

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In an essay, entitled “Making It in America,” in the latest issue of The Atlantic, the author Adam Davidson relates a joke from cotton country about just how much a modern textile mill has been automated: The average mill has only two employees today, “a man and a dog. The man is there to feed the dog, and the dog is there to keep the man away from the machines.”

Davidson’s article is one of a number of pieces that have recently appeared making the point that the reason we have such stubbornly high unemployment and sagging middle-class incomes today is largely because of the big drop in demand because of the Great Recession, but it is also because of the quantum advances in both globalization and the information technology revolution, which are more rapidly than ever replacing labor with machines or foreign workers.

In the past, workers with average skills, doing an average job, could earn an average lifestyle. But, today, average is officially over. Being average just won’t earn you what it used to. It can’t when so many more employers have so much more access to so much more above average cheap foreign labor, cheap robotics, cheap software, cheap automation and cheap genius. Therefore, everyone needs to find their extra — their unique value contribution that makes them stand out in whatever is their field of employment. Average is over.

Yes, new technology has been eating jobs forever, and always will. As they say, if horses could have voted, there never would have been cars. But there’s been an acceleration. As Davidson notes, “In the 10 years ending in 2009, [U.S.] factories shed workers so fast that they erased almost all the gains of the previous 70 years; roughly one out of every three manufacturing jobs — about 6 million in total — disappeared.”

And you ain’t seen nothin’ yet. Last April, Annie Lowrey of Slate wrote about a start-up called “E la Carte” that is out to shrink the need for waiters and waitresses: The company “has produced a kind of souped-up iPad that lets you order and pay right at your table. The brainchild of a bunch of M.I.T. engineers, the nifty invention, known as the Presto, might be found at a restaurant near you soon. … You select what you want to eat and add items to a cart. Depending on the restaurant’s preferences, the console could show you nutritional information, ingredients lists and photographs. You can make special requests, like ‘dressing on the side’ or ‘quintuple bacon.’ When you’re done, the order zings over to the kitchen, and the Presto tells you how long it will take for your items to come out. … Bored with your companions? Play games on the machine. When you’re through with your meal, you pay on the console, splitting the bill item by item if you wish and paying however you want. And you can have your receipt e-mailed to you. … Each console goes for $100 per month. If a restaurant serves meals eight hours a day, seven days a week, it works out to 42 cents per hour per table — making the Presto cheaper than even the very cheapest waiter.”

What the iPad won’t do in an above average way a Chinese worker will. Consider this paragraph from Sunday’s terrific article in The Times by Charles Duhigg and Keith Bradsher about why Apple does so much of its manufacturing in China: “Apple had redesigned the iPhone’s screen at the last minute, forcing an assembly-line overhaul. New screens began arriving at the [Chinese] plant near midnight. A foreman immediately roused 8,000 workers inside the company’s dormitories, according to the executive. Each employee was given a biscuit and a cup of tea, guided to a workstation and within half an hour started a 12-hour shift fitting glass screens into beveled frames. Within 96 hours, the plant was producing over 10,000 iPhones a day. ‘The speed and flexibility is breathtaking,’ the executive said. ‘There’s no American plant that can match that.’ ”

And automation is not just coming to manufacturing, explains Curtis Carlson, the chief executive of SRI International, a Silicon Valley idea lab that invented the Apple iPhone program known as Siri, the digital personal assistant. “Siri is the beginning of a huge transformation in how we interact with banks, insurance companies, retail stores, health care providers, information retrieval services and product services.”

There will always be change — new jobs, new products, new services. But the one thing we know for sure is that with each advance in globalization and the I.T. revolution, the best jobs will require workers to have more and better education to make themselves above average. Here are the latest unemployment rates from the Bureau of Labor Statistics for Americans over 25 years old: those with less than a high school degree, 13.8 percent; those with a high school degree and no college, 8.7 percent; those with some college or associate degree, 7.7 percent; and those with bachelor’s degree or higher, 4.1 percent.

In a world where average is officially over, there are many things we need to do to buttress employment, but nothing would be more important than passing some kind of G.I. Bill for the 21st century that ensures that every American has access to post-high school education.

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On This Day: January 25

Updated January 24, 2012, 1:28 pm

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On Jan. 25, 1915, the inventor of the telephone, Alexander Graham Bell, inaugurated U.S. transcontinental telephone service.

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On Jan. 25, 1882, Virginia Woolf, the British novelist, was born. Following her death on March 28, 1941, her obituary appeared in The Times.

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On This Date

By The Associated Press
1533 England’s King Henry VIII secretly married Anne Boleyn, his second wife.
1759 Scottish poet Robert Burns was born in Alloway.
1787 Shays’ Rebellion suffered a setback when debt-ridden farmers led by Capt. Daniel Shays failed to capture an arsenal at Springfield, Mass.
1890 The United Mine Workers of America was founded in Columbus, Ohio.
1915 The inventor of the telephone, Alexander Graham Bell, inaugurated transcontinental telephone service in the United States.
1947 Gangster Al Capone died at age 48.
1959 American Airlines opened the jet age in the United States with the first scheduled transcontinental flight of a Boeing 707.
1971 Charles Manson and three female followers were convicted in Los Angeles of murder and conspiracy in the 1969 slayings of seven people, including actress Sharon Tate.
1995 The defense gave its opening statement in the O.J. Simpson trial in Los Angeles, saying Simpson was the victim of a “rush to judgment” by authorities.
2006 The Islamic militant group Hamas won a large majority of seats in Palestinian parliamentary elections.
2007 Ford Motor Co. said it had lost a staggering $12.7 billion in 2006, the worst loss in the company’s 103-year history.
2011 A federal judge in New York sentenced Ahmed Ghailani, the first Guantanamo detainee to have a U.S. civilian trial, to life in prison for conspiring in the bombing of two U.S. embassies in Africa in 1998.

Current Birthdays

By The Associated Press
Alicia Keys, R&B singer

R&B singer Alicia Keys turns 31 years old today.

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Eduard Shevardnadze, Former president of Georgia

Former Georgian president Eduard Shevardnadze turns 84 years old today.

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1931 Dean Jones, Actor, turns 81
1958 Dinah Manoff, Actress (“Empty Nest,” “Soap”), turns 54
1975 Mia Kirshner, Actress, turns 37
1979 Christine Lakin, Actress, turns 33


Historic Birthdays

Virginia Woolf 1/25/1882 – 3/28/1941 British author.Go to obituary »
71 Giovanni Morone 1/25/1509 – 12/1/1580
Italian cardinal and diplomat
64 Robert Boyle 1/25/1627 – 12/30/1691
Anglo-Irish chemist
77 Joseph-Louis Lagrange 1/25/1736 – 4/10/1813
Italian-French mathematician
37 Robert Burns 1/25/1759 – 7/21/1796
Scottish national poet
60 Benjamin Robert Haydon 1/25/1786 – 6/22/1846
English historical painter/writer
77 Dan Rice 1/25/1823 – 2/22/1900
American clown
50 George Edward Pickett 1/25/1825 – 7/30/1875
American Confederate Army officer
76 Charles Curtis 1/25/1860 – 2/8/1936
American 31st vice president
85 Rufus Matthew Jones 1/25/1863 – 6/16/1948
American Quaker and author
91 W. Somerset Maugham 1/25/1874 – 12/16/1965
English novelist/playwright
76 William C. Bullitt 1/25/1891 – 2/15/1967
U.S. diplomat
73 Paul-Henri Spaak 1/25/1899 – 7/31/1972
Post-World War II statesmen from Belgium
54 Viljo Revell 1/25/1910 – 11/8/1964
Finnish architect


 

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