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A part of my office as viewed through the mirror that hangs on one side of its four walls.  If you think this mirror is a work of art, it is!  It is handcrafted by Mexican artisans who sell their wares across the border in toursity cities like San Antonio, Texas– which is where I came upon it.

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Facebook Won't Rule The World After All

It is only the naive or the short-sighted who believe that it will– rule the world, that is! “Topic-Centric” social media is where it’s at, people. And open and transparent flow of information across the WWW.

Facebook Won’t Rule The World After All

 

 

Tech needs villains.

 

We had Microsoft for a while, Google for another. These days, it’s Facebook. According to some, Zuckerberg is not only after exposing publicly our most private data but he’s also into privatizing the Web to make it a part of Facebook: replacing Web sites by Facebook pages, email by Facebook messages, and so on. Some are worried. It’s true that Facebook’s growth is impressive. And more importantly its usage is massive. Even financials are amazing, with revenue well above a billion dollars from advertising and virtual goods, while social commerce could still bring huge additional opportunities.
Yet, I don’t think Facebook has it all. I know it’s massive but because of that we tend to overlook where it fails. 

 

Facebook didn’t prevent the growth of Twitter, now just only a third of the size of it’s bigger brother. True, the “Social Network” beat the shit out of some early form of social expression platforms such as mySpace or Bebo; but Tumblr is enjoying healthy and rapid growth. And LinkedIn did more than survive by signing up its 100 millionth user and filing for IPO. Last but not least and perhaps more importantly, a number of studies showed that over the past few months, users started to unsubscribe (unlike) Facebook pages of brands.

 

Why? Because fundamentally, Facebook is built on something very powerful but yet limited: online sharing with friends

 

Zuckerberg showed us how engaging this bound was when brought to the Web. Sharing content, pictures and jokes with friends is undeniably fun and rewarding. Out of a social network (a natural connection between people), Facebook became a successful social media (a stream of content distributed by people from your network).

 

But it’s a social media that has the bias of its underlying social network: friendship. It’s a social media where the relationship between content curators and readers is based on friendship, however large a meaning Facebook wants to give it. You share on Facebook to connect with your friends: to engage them. Even the primary reason for liking Facebook pages is to impact your friends. Yet, my friends are a part of my life but they’re not my whole life.

 

Therefore, where Facebook stops working in my opinion is when it tries to confuse friendship with areas of interest. The interest graph is NOT the social graph. Most of my friends won’t care about this post for instance. They’re not in Tech: I didn’t write it for them. Similarly, I don’t expect them to share my passion for freeride skiing nor my sometimes-addictive taste in online video games. Yet, all these topics are fascinating to me and I love to exchange socially on them. They form my interest graph and they don’t belong on Facebook.

 

The disconnect between interest graph and social graph will progressively affect our experience with Facebook in two ways.

 

First, we feel spammed when brands pollute our news feed by posting too much content (as shown by the survey I mentioned above). Over time, this creates an information overload feeling not so much because the content is not interesting than because it prevents us from accessing the real cool stuff shared by our friends that we signed up for: pictures, news, videos, fun stuff, etc… The fact Facebook users have started to unlike pages shows that this limitation is already at work.

 

Second, because Facebook is not the media for my interests, we feel the need for some other forms of social media. One that can be based on topics rather than people. Where I could receive but also curate and share content on freeride skiing or video games without embarrassing my friends… or myself. When people follow me or friend me, they have all of me which means tech stuff, ski content and gamers news. What they should be allowed to do is follow my tech stuff but not my ski content nor my gamers news if they don’t care for it. So we need a place where I can curate and share content on my passions and my areas of interest without embarrassing my friends… or myself. And where I could meet and engage with others who share these passions but wouldn’t be my friends on Facebook.

 

I’m not predicting Facebook’s death nor decline. Again, friendship is massive. And huge volumes will for sure continue to attract and compensate for the limitations I’ve described. But the bigger Facebook will be, the less agile it will be and the more visibly we’ll all see that we need to complete it with topic-centric social media.

 

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Faiz Ahmed Faiz: A Poet With A Musical Heart

I woud have loved to attend these events being hosted at MSU today!  Many a famous ghazal was penned by Mr. Faiz.  

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Why You Should Fry Your Grilled Cheese in Mayonnaise!

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Click on the picture to go directly to the link. Bring the mayo, people!

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Onion Festival in India

Sent to me via e-mail by a friend… how cool is that?!

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Delivery-time.  Oh, and no points for guessing the missing letter! 

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The Boar's Head: A Chicago-Style Delicatessen

So, here’s the thing:  when you go on vacation, make it good so the memories last a while.  And you know what else?  Share those memories with your loved ones– with your pictures and stories.

Well, here’s my latest offering of an ordinary lunch experience of a hot-dog and kettle chips during one of our fun-filled sightseeing days in San Antonio, Texas from a couple of months ago.  We had stopped into this restaurant with a curious name:  The Boar’s Head.  And we soon discovered that the hotdogs over there were not Texas-style (whatever those might be like!); these were Chicago-style dogs! 

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The hotdogs were terrific as were the kettle chips that went with it.  And the artwork on the walls was cool in the most intriguing way!  But best of all was the company I had while chomping down on my dog:  my honey, aka, my sweet husband!

Viva la Chicago-style hotdogs at the Boar’s Head!
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127 Hours: Between a Rock and a Hard Place by Aron Ralston

Made into a huge success of a motion-picture last year, there was renewed interest for many in reading the book that the story originally came from, I am sure.  I was one of those who wanted to read the book first, but I don’t know if I wish to see the movie now.  And that is not because of any lack of interest in the story, or any disappointment in it; on the contrary, so graphic were the descriptions of this phenomenal story of a young man so filled with adventure but even more so with courage, that the images of his terrifying hiking accident and his escape are already vividly implanted in my mind’s eye!  Thanks to the almost-unbelievable story and the very good story-telling skills by Aron Ralston, the author of this book, 127 Hours:  Between A Rock And A Hard Place is an excellent read.

This is an autobiography of a twenty-seven year old young man who experienced so freakish an accident while hiking the canyons of Utah that it is almost impossible to imagine how he could have endured what he did– and survived in order to tell this tale.  Surely, it must have been God’s will to allow him the courage of body and mind to hold on for as long as he does, viz. 127 hours before he comes to the conclusion that he must amputate himself with the crudest of a pocket-knife before he is able to free himself from between a rock and a hard place!  

Ralston does a fine job in telling his story– not just of his ordeal but of his entire life, and the one recurring place that he dwells on is his sweet relationships with his family and friends, especially, his immediate family of mother, father and sister.  The early influences of his parents, we learn, determined his own life-choices of career and vocation, and the great strength that he has gained from them is clearly evident in the manner in which he talks about them and to them– this, by way of video-recording himself while trapped under the boulder. 

This is a story that will reaffirm, and if need be, even restore your faith in the awesome power of the human spirit to persevere against all the odds.  And of how miracles never cease to exist. 

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