Month: November 2012
Surely Goodness and Mercy Shall Follow Me…
Overflowing plate
Matched by overflowing heart
Full of gratitude
Thanksgiving 2012: A Meditation on Giving Thanks and Other Miscellania
This was a post first published in my private blog on Thursday, November 26, 2009, three years ago on this day of Thanksgiving. It is with great fondness that I reproduce it here again today. Simply titled, ‘To Rachel’ it is a tribute to my late friend, and an affirmation to my love of a day that is set aside to give thanks for the many blessings and bounties of life.

Five years ago, around this time of year, my friend Rachel and I went out to have lunch at the new Zingerman’s restaurant that had opened at the corner of Maple and Stadium. Rachel Persico, my friend and colleague from work was her talkative and cynical self. Cynical because that was her style, her way, her approach to life.
I suppose she had reason to be cynical– or anything she might want to be– given that she had quite the extraordinary story about her childhood and personal circumstances. She would tell about how her family in Poland had survived the Nazi concentration camps before they eventually found their way to the newly founded nation-state of Israel in 1948. As a child at the time, she was raised in a kibbutz, and later as a young woman, she met and married a displaced and dispossessed Arab Palestinian and emigrated to the States. They made their home in Ann Arbor, Michigan, where Antone held a faculty appointment in the Department of Middle Eastern Studies, and Rachel, with her background as a social-worker and counselor, became a Student Advisor at the International Center.
Well, on that day when we went out to lunch, Rachel was waxing eloquent about the uselessness of the Thanksgiving holiday. Was it not a celebration of the massacre, domination, and eventual elimination of the native-American folk by the white invaders across the ocean? Rachel didn’t wish to see anything more to this unique American tradition, and I wasn’t particularly inclined to get into a heated exchange over our soup and salad. And so, I sat back and smiled, and made a few small sounds of dissent every now and then, but for the most part, I let her tell me just how silly and useless all the fuss was about. She knew I wasn’t buying it, but both she and I didn’t care about that, choosing only to focus on the fact that we were happy to be able to agree to disagree over a nice lunch in a nice place!
I didn’t buy it then, and I don’t buy it now– this whole argument about the supposed real purpose of the first Thanksgiving– and here’s why: regardless of the unassailable facts surrounding the occupation and inhabitation of the New World, I choose to believe that the first Pilgrims (Puritans fleeing religious discrimination in their motherland, England) truly wished to offer thanksgiving to God for the fruits of their first labors. The bounty of food and fellowship was surely worthy of giving thanks.
Giving thanks, once a year, to God and to each other, for all the good things that we have received. What a concept! Simple, yet so powerful.
So, today, on Thanksgiving Day, this exclusively American holiday, for the record, I wish to state that I am unashamedly a fan of this tradition. It is the most unpretentious– and dare I say it– least commercialized holiday whose focus is still, putting everything on hold for one day– shutting down all work and business– so as to make a nice meal and share it with the ones you love. Sometimes, they might not be so loving, and you might not even care for their company (all those horror stories of insufferable aunts, uncles, cousins, and the like are probably all true!), but the very act of coming together and putting aside differences for a while is a laudable event.
My dear friend Rachel died three years later– almost close to the day that we went out to lunch. Today, on Thanksgiving, I cherish the memory of that time, as well as all the other good times we had. Thank you, Rachel, for your friendship, and for being you. Here’s to you, today. RIP.
P.S. Rachel also loved ABBA, the band. One of her favorite songs was Waterloo. Rachel faced her Waterloo with her cancer that finally won. These are some of the lyrics from that song:
Waterloo – I was defeated, you won the war
Waterloo – promise to love you for ever more
Waterloo – couldn’t escape if I wanted to
Waterloo – knowing my fate is to be with you
Waterloo – finally facing my Waterloo
My my, I tried to hold you back but you were stronger
Oh yeah, and now it seems my only chance is giving up the fight
And how could I ever refuse
I feel like I win when I lose
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Here’s a picture of my Thanksgiving table today. I have too much to be thankful for, but that doesn’t deter me from counting my blessings.
On This Day: November 21
Updated November 20, 2012, 1:28 pm
On Nov. 21, 1904, Coleman Hawkins, the pioneering American jazz saxophonist, was born. Following his death on May 19, 1969, his obituary appeared in The Times.
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On This Date
By The Associated Press
1789 North Carolina became the 12th state to ratify the U.S. Constitution. 1922 Rebecca L. Felton of Georgia was sworn in as the first woman to serve in the U.S. Senate. 1969 The Senate voted down the Supreme Court nomination of Clement F. Haynsworth. 1973 President Richard Nixon’s attorney, J. Fred Buzhardt, revealed the existence of an 18 1/2-minute gap in one of the White House tape recordings related to Watergate. 1980 A fire at the MGM Grand Hotel-Casino in Las Vegas killed 87 people. 1985 Former U.S. Navy intelligence analyst Jonathan Jay Pollard was arrested, accused of spying for Israel. (He later pleaded guilty and is serving a life sentence.) 1989 The proceedings of Britain’s House of Commons were televised live for the first time. 1991 The U.N. Security Council chose Boutros Boutros-Ghali of Egypt to be secretary-general. 1995 The Dow Jones industrial average closed above 5,000 for the first time. 2000 The Florida Supreme Court granted Democrat Al Gore’s request to keep the presidential election recount going. 2001 A 94-year-old Connecticut woman died of inhalation anthrax, the last of five people killed in the anthrax attacks. 2002 NATO invited seven former communist countries to join the alliance: Slovenia, Slovakia, Estonia, Latvia, Lithuania, Romania and Bulgaria. 2004 The NBA suspended Indiana’s Ron Artest for the rest of the season following a brawl in the stands during a game against the Detroit Pistons. 2005 Israeli Prime Minister Ariel Sharon broke away from the hardline Likud with the intention of forming a new party. 2007 Officials announced the recall of more than a half-million pieces of Chinese-made children’s jewelry contaminated with lead. 2010 Debt-struck Ireland applied for a massive EU-IMF loan to stem the flight of capital from its banks. Current Birthdays
By The Associated Press
Musician Dr. John turns 72 years old today.
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Journalist-editor Tina Brown turns 59 years old today.
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1920 Stan Musial, Baseball Hall of Famer, turns 92 1937 Marlo Thomas, Actress (“That Girl”), turns 75 1944 Richard Durbin, U.S. senator, D-Ill., turns 68 1944 Earl Monroe, Basketball Hall of Famer, turns 68 1944 Harold Ramis, Writer, actor, turns 68 1945 Goldie Hawn, Actress, turns 67 1950 Livingston Taylor, Singer, turns 62 1952 Lorna Luft, Actress, turns 60 1956 Cherry Jones, Actress, turns 56 1963 Nicollette Sheridan, Actress (“Desperate Housewives”), turns 49 1965 Bjork, Rock singer, actress, turns 47 1966 Troy Aikman, Football Hall of Famer, sportscaster, turns 46 1969 Ken Griffey Jr., Baseball player, turns 43 1971 Michael Strahan, Football player, talk show host, turns 41 1984 Jena Malone, Actress, turns 28 1985 Carly Rae Jepsen, Singer, turns 27
Historic Birthdays
Coleman Hawkins 11/21/1904 – 5/19/1969 American jazz musician.Go to obituary »
83 Francois Voltaire 11/21/1694 – 5/30/1778
French writer67 William Beaumont 11/21/1785 – 4/25/1853
American army surgeon77 Sir Samuel Cunard 11/21/1787 – 4/28/1865
British shipbuilder80 Hetty Green 11/21/1834 – 7/3/1916
American financier81 Sir Harold Nicolson 11/21/1886 – 5/1/1968
English author and diplomat68 Rene Magritte 11/21/1898 – 8/15/1967
Belgian painter69 Eleanor Powell 11/21/1912 – 2/11/1982
American dancer81 Sid Luckman 11/21/1916 – 7/5/1998
American football coach
The Grouse in the Heart of Mumbai
The Grouse in the Heart of Mumbai
By MANU JOSEPH
Published: November 21, 2012
NEW DELHI — A misfortune of Mumbai is that its politicians have always had a better understanding of the great city than many of its elite writers, who have long described the city by its most vacuous quality — cosmopolitanism.
According to this obtuse literary outlook, it is the educated, affluent, fashionable and gorgeous outsiders who are the cosmopolitans. The odorous laborers from the northern states are merely “migrants.” And Mumbai, according to these same artists, is and always was a good-natured city that welcomes outsiders of all kinds with open arms. But a man called Bal K. Thackeray knew this was not the true nature of his city.
Every great city has a grouse in its heart, and he knew what Mumbai’s was: the grouse of the native against the outsiders who were taking away his jobs, building great homes he could not afford, diminishing his language, changing the menu of his restaurants and replacing his cinema with another kind of cinema.
In 1966, Mr. Thackeray founded the Shiv Sena, a political organization that swore to return Mumbai, the capital of the western state of Maharashtra, to Maharashtrians. In the decades that followed, the Shiv Sena unleashed a wave of hatred and violence against the most vulnerable targets among the outsiders. In 1995, soon after the party won enough seats in the elections to head the state government, he changed the city’s name from Bombay to Mumbai, the Marathi word for the city.
On Sunday, Mr. Thackeray, the last don of Mumbai, lay in state, wearing dark glasses, his body wrapped in the national flag, which is a sacred object in India. The living can be arrested for wearing it.
He was another old man in the brief history of India’s apparent democracy who should have spent time in prison but instead lived a full, successful life, and died of natural causes when his 86-year-old heart stalled after an illness.
As with other regional dons in this country, he was, in a way, the creation of the Indian National Congress party, which had won the mandate several times to govern Maharashtra but allowed a ringleader of thugs to use violence and fear to build his myth. He was the strongest evidence for his own favorite thesis that India was a farcical democracy and that the man who controlled fear controlled everything.
By the time he died he was a somewhat diminished political figure, but as the news of his death swept through Mumbai on Saturday, the city, fearing violence, shut down.
No self-respecting Indian don departs from the world without his sidekicks smashing some windows. Saturday evening and all of Sunday, there were no taxis on the road, no pharmacies, no cinemas and no supplies of milk and other things that the government classifies as “essentials.”
The people of Mumbai, for excellent reasons, had little faith in the state government, which is currently led by the Congress party, to ensure their safety if they dared to step out for reasons other than attending Mr. Thackeray’s funeral.
Mr. Thackeray often described himself — with a twist of his wrist and a flick of his fingers, as if he were delivering a great one-liner — that he was not a politician but a political cartoonist. For a man who described himself as a cartoonist, he never denied — in fact he proudly accepted — that he favored the use of force against those whom he believed should vacate Maharashtra.
He was, of course, a capable cartoonist. He understood the importance of being interesting in the presence of strangers and used satire and personal insults to great effect even in his fiery speeches. He once said in a television interview that an important lesson he learned from his father was that a public speaker must not lecture people and bore them but must “gossip with the people.”
In a political career that rested on overtly encouraging hate, he first unleashed his goons on South Indian migrants, then found his political goldmine in the early 1990s, when he, through his public speeches and articles, fanned one of Mumbai’s bloodiest communal riots, which killed nearly a thousand people.
A Maharashtra government inquiry into the riots indicted Mr. Thackeray on charges of inciting the violence. He roared that if he were arrested, “the whole country will burn.” In 2000, the Congress-led state government did arrest Mr. Thackeray, but he was granted bail within hours.
The writer and film producer Pritish Nandy, who represented the Shiv Sena in the upper house of Parliament and maintained a long friendship with Mr. Thackeray, told me: “At the start of his political career, he used to say things half in jest, and he used to be surprised at how seriously his words were taken. Slowly, he began to believe those things that he used to say in jest.”
And the cartoonist eventually presided over an organization that has been involved in hundreds of cases of stabbings, riots and acts of vandalism. The way of the nation is that he will soon become a statue with a pointed index finger on whom pigeons will mete out justice.
Manu Joseph is editor of the Indian newsweekly Open and author of the novel “The Illicit Happiness of Other People.”





Coleman Hawkins 11/21/1904 – 5/19/1969 American jazz musician.

















