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May 04

MORNING

“I will be their God, and they shall be my people.”
2 Corinthians 6:16

What a sweet title: “My people!” What a cheering revelation: “Their God!” How much of meaning is couched in those two words, “My people!” Here is speciality. The whole world is God’s; the heaven, even the heaven of heavens is the Lord’s, and he reigneth among the children of men; but of those whom he hath chosen, whom he hath purchased to himself, he saith what he saith not of others–“My people.” In this word there is the idea of proprietorship. In a special manner the “Lord’s portion is his people; Jacob is the lot of his inheritance.” All the nations upon earth are his; the whole world is in his power; yet are his people, his chosen, more especially his possession; for he has done more for them than others; he has bought them with his blood; he has brought them nigh to himself; he has set his great heart upon them; he has loved them with an everlasting love, a love which many waters cannot quench, and which the revolutions of time shall never suffice in the least degree to diminish. Dear friends, can you, by faith, see yourselves in that number? Can you look up to heaven and say, “My Lord and my God: mine by that sweet relationship which entitles me to call thee Father; mine by that hallowed fellowship which I delight to hold with thee when thou art pleased to manifest thyself unto me as thou dost not unto the world?” Canst thou read the Book of Inspiration, and find there the indentures of thy salvation? Canst thou read thy title writ in precious blood? Canst thou, by humble faith, lay hold of Jesus’ garments, and say, “My Christ”? If thou canst, then God saith of thee, and of others like thee, “My people;” for, if God be your God, and Christ your Christ, the Lord has a special, peculiar favour to you; you are the object of his choice, accepted in his beloved Son.

EVENING

“He that handleth a matter wisely shall find good: and whoso trusteth in the Lord, happy is he.”
Proverbs 16:20

Wisdom is man’s true strength; and, under its guidance, he best accomplishes the ends of his being. Wisely handling the matter of life gives to man the richest enjoyment, and presents the noblest occupation for his powers; hence by it he finds good in the fullest sense. Without wisdom, man is as the wild ass’s colt, running hither and thither, wasting strength which might be profitably employed. Wisdom is the compass by which man is to steer across the trackless waste of life; without it he is a derelict vessel, the sport of winds and waves. A man must be prudent in such a world as this, or he will find no good, but be betrayed into unnumbered ills. The pilgrim will sorely wound his feet among the briers of the wood of life if he do not pick his steps with the utmost caution. He who is in a wilderness infested with robber bands must handle matters wisely if he would journey safely. If, trained by the Great Teacher, we follow where he leads, we shall find good, even while in this dark abode; there are celestial fruits to be gathered this side of Eden’s bowers, and songs of paradise to be sung amid the groves of earth. But where shall this wisdom be found? Many have dreamed of it, but have not possessed it. Where shall we learn it? Let us listen to the voice of the Lord, for he hath declared the secret; he hath revealed to the sons of men wherein true wisdom lieth, and we have it in the text, “Whoso trusteth in the Lord, happy is he.” The true way to handle a matter wisely is to trust in the Lord. This is the sure clue to the most intricate labyrinths of life; follow it and find eternal bliss. He who trusts in the Lord has a diploma for wisdom granted by inspiration: happy is he now, and happier shall he be above. Lord, in this sweet eventide walk with me in the garden, and teach me the wisdom of faith.

 

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Frozen Only In the Frame: A Celebration of Smiles

Age five and age three

Barretts and flowers in hair

Smiles light up the day!

Sanaandsamira

 

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What They Don't Tell You at Graduation

By CHARLES WHEELAN

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Look to your left and then to your right. Is that pretty girl Phi Beta Kappa? Marry her.

Class of 2012,

I became sick of commencement speeches at about your age. My first job out of college was writing speeches for the governor of Maine. Every spring, I would offer extraordinary tidbits of wisdom to 22-year-olds—which was quite a feat given that I was 23 at the time. In the decades since, I’ve spent most of my career teaching economics and public policy. In particular, I’ve studied happiness and well-being, about which we now know a great deal. And I’ve found that the saccharine and over-optimistic words of the typical commencement address hold few of the lessons young people really need to hear about what lies ahead. Here, then, is what I wish someone had told the Class of 1988:

1. Your time in fraternity basements was well spent. 

The same goes for the time you spent playing intramural sports, working on the school newspaper or just hanging with friends. Research tells us that one of the most important causal factors associated with happiness and well-being is your meaningful connections with other human beings. Look around today. Certainly one benchmark of your postgraduation success should be how many of these people are still your close friends in 10 or 20 years.

 

Charles Wheelan checks in on Mean Street with some advice for the Class of 2012: pay very close attention, because there are key things you need to know that you won’t learn by simply donning a cap and gown. Photo: AP.

 2. Some of your worst days lie ahead. Graduation is a happy day. But my job is to tell you that if you are going to do anything worthwhile, you will face periods of grinding self-doubt and failure. Be prepared to work through them. I’ll spare you my personal details, other than to say that one year after college graduation I had no job, less than $500 in assets, and I was living with an elderly retired couple. The only difference between when I graduated and today is that now no one can afford to retire.  

3. Don’t make the world worse. I know that I’m supposed to tell you to aspire to great things. But I’m going to lower the bar here: Just don’t use your prodigious talents to mess things up. Too many smart people are doing that already. And if you really want to cause social mayhem, it helps to have an Ivy League degree. You are smart and motivated and creative. Everyone will tell you that you can change the world. They are right, but remember that “changing the world” also can include things like skirting financial regulations and selling unhealthy foods to increasingly obese children. I am not asking you to cure cancer. I am just asking you not to spread it.

4. Marry someone smarter than you are. When I was getting a Ph.D., my wife Leah had a steady income. When she wanted to start a software company, I had a job with health benefits. (To clarify, having a “spouse with benefits” is different from having a “friend with benefits.”) You will do better in life if you have a second economic oar in the water. I also want to alert you to the fact that commencement is like shooting smart fish in a barrel. The Phi Beta Kappa members will have pink-and-blue ribbons on their gowns. The summa cum laude graduates have their names printed in the program. Seize the opportunity!  

Successful people are often asked to deliver a university or college’s graduation speech, Here are some words of wisdom offered in commencement speeches over the last few years from President Obama, Conan O’Brien, Hillary Clinton, Stephen Colbert and Jimmy Carter

 

5. Help stop the Little League arms race. Kids’ sports are becoming ridiculously structured and competitive. What happened to playing baseball because it’s fun? We are systematically creating races out of things that ought to be a journey. We know that success isn’t about simply running faster than everyone else in some predetermined direction. Yet the message we are sending from birth is that if you don’t make the traveling soccer team or get into the “right” school, then you will somehow finish life with fewer points than everyone else. That’s not right. You’ll never read the following obituary: “Bob Smith died yesterday at the age of 74. He finished life in 186th place.”

6. Read obituaries. They are just like biographies, only shorter. They remind us that interesting, successful people rarely lead orderly, linear lives.  

7. Your parents don’t want what is best for you. They want what is good for you, which isn’t always the same thing. There is a natural instinct to protect our children from risk and discomfort, and therefore to urge safe choices. Theodore Roosevelt—soldier, explorer, president—once remarked, “It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.” Great quote, but I am willing to bet that Teddy’s mother wanted him to be a doctor or a lawyer. 

8. Don’t model your life after a circus animal. Performing animals do tricks because their trainers throw them peanuts or small fish for doing so. You should aspire to do better. You will be a friend, a parent, a coach, an employee—and so on. But only in your job will you be explicitly evaluated and rewarded for your performance. Don’t let your life decisions be distorted by the fact that your boss is the only one tossing you peanuts. If you leave a work task undone in order to meet a friend for dinner, then you are “shirking” your work. But it’s also true that if you cancel dinner to finish your work, then you are shirking your friendship. That’s just not how we usually think of it.

9. It’s all borrowed time. You shouldn’t take anything for granted, not even tomorrow. I offer you the “hit by a bus” rule. Would I regret spending my life this way if I were to get hit by a bus next week or next year? And the important corollary: Does this path lead to a life I will be happy with and proud of in 10 or 20 years if I don’t get hit by a bus. 

10. Don’t try to be great. Being great involves luck and other circumstances beyond your control. The less you think about being great, the more likely it is to happen. And if it doesn’t, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being solid.

Good luck and congratulations.

— Adapted from “10½ Things No Commencement Speaker Has Ever Said,” by Charles Wheelan. To be published May 7 by W.W. Norton & Co.

A version of this article appeared April 28, 2012, on page C3 in some U.S. editions of The Wall Street Journal, with the headline: 10 Things Your Commencement Speaker Won’t Tell You.

Graduation-cap

 

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On This Day: May 3

Updated May 2, 2012, 2:28 pm

NYT Front Page

On May 3, 1971, anti-war protesters calling themselves the Mayday Tribe began four days of demonstrations in Washington, D.C., aimed at shutting down the nation’s capital.
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On May 3, 1898, Golda Meir, the fourth prime minister of the State of Israel, was born. Following her death on Dec. 8, 1978, her obituary appeared in The Times.

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On This Date

By The Associated Press

1802 Washington, D.C., was incorporated.
1898 Israeli founder and prime minister Golda Meir was born Goldie Mabovitch in Kiev, Ukraine.
1921 West Virginia imposed the first state sales tax.
1936 Baseball Hall of Famer Joe DiMaggio made his major league debut with the New York Yankees.
1937 Margaret Mitchell won a Pulitzer Prize for her novel “Gone with the Wind.”
1948 The Supreme Court ruled that covenants prohibiting the sale of real estate to blacks and other minorities were legally unenforceable.
1960 The musical “The Fantasticks” opened off-Broadway, beginning a record run of nearly 42 years.
1971 Anti-war protesters began four days of demonstrations in Washington, D.C.
1971 The National Public Radio program “All Things Considered” made its debut.
1988 The White House acknowledged that first lady Nancy Reagan had used astrological advice to help schedule President Ronald Reagan’s activities.
2001 The United States lost its seat on the U.N. Human Rights Commission for the first time since the commission was formed in 1947.
2005 Iraq’s first democratically elected government was sworn in.
2007 Astronaut Wally Schirra died at age 84.
2010 Times Square bombing suspect Faisal Shahzad was apprehended aboard a flight preparing to depart New York for Dubai.

Current Birthdays

By The Associated Press

Pete Seeger, Folk singer

Folk singer Pete Seeger turns 93 years old today.

AP Photo/John Minchillo

Joseph Addai, Football player

Indianapolis Colts running back Joseph Addai turns 29 years old today.

AP Photo/AJ Mast

1926 Ann B. Davis, Actress (“The Brady Bunch”), turns 86
1934 Frankie Valli, Singer (The Four Seasons), turns 78
1942 C.L. “Butch” Otter, Governor of Idaho, turns 70
1943 Jim Risch, U.S. senator, R-Idaho, turns 69
1946 Greg Gumbel, Sports announcer, turns 66
1949 Ron Wyden, U.S. senator, D-Ore., turns 63
1951 Christopher Cross, Singer, turns 61
1961 David Vitter, U.S. senator, R-La., turns 51
1970 Bobby Cannavale, Actor, turns 42
1975 Dule’ Hill, Actor (“Psych,” “The West Wing”), turns 37
1984 Cheryl Burke, Dancer (“Dancing with the Stars”), turns 28

 

Historic Birthdays

Golda Meir 5/3/1898 – 12/8/1978 Russian-born Zionist; fourth prime minister of Israel.Go to obituary »
58 Niccolo Machiavelli 5/3/1469 – 6/21/1527
Italian writer, statesman and political theorist
56 Richard D’Oyly Carte 5/3/1844 – 4/3/1901
English impresario; founded the Savoy Theatre
84 E. W. Howe 5/3/1853 – 10/3/1937
American editor, essayist and novelist
80 Vito Volterra 5/3/1860 – 10/11/1940
Italian mathematician
85 Marcel Dupre 5/3/1886 – 5/30/1971
French organ virtuoso and influential teacher
83 Sir George Paget Thomson 5/3/1892 – 9/10/1975
English Nobel Prize-winning physicist (1937)
89 Septima P. Clark 5/3/1898 – 12/15/1987
American educator and civil rights activist
74 Bing Crosby 5/3/1903 – 10/14/1977
American singer, actor and songwriter
83 May Sarton 5/3/1912 – 7/16/1995
American poet, novelist and essayist
60 William Inge 5/3/1913 – 6/10/1973
American playwright; awarded Pulitzer Prize for “Picnic” in 1953
67 Sugar Ray Robinson 5/3/1921 – 4/12/1989
American boxer; world champion six times between 1946 and 1960

 

 

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May 03

MORNING

“Shall a man make gods unto himself, and they are no gods.”
Jeremiah 16:20

One great besetting sin of ancient Israel was idolatry, and the spiritual Israel are vexed with a tendency to the same folly. Remphan’s star shines no longer, and the women weep no more for Tammuz, but Mammon still intrudes his golden calf, and the shrines of pride are not forsaken. Self in various forms struggles to subdue the chosen ones under its dominion, and the flesh sets up its altars wherever it can find space for them. Favourite children are often the cause of much sin in believers; the Lord is grieved when he sees us doting upon them above measure; they will live to be as great a curse to us as Absalom was to David, or they will be taken from us to leave our homes desolate. If Christians desire to grow thorns to stuff their sleepless pillows, let them dote on their dear ones.

It is truly said that “they are no gods,” for the objects of our foolish love are very doubtful blessings, the solace which they yield us now is dangerous, and the help which they can give us in the hour of trouble is little indeed. Why, then, are we so bewitched with vanities? We pity the poor heathen who adore a god of stone, and yet worship a god of gold. Where is the vast superiority between a god of flesh and one of wood? The principle, the sin, the folly is the same in either case, only that in ours the crime is more aggravated because we have more light, and sin in the face of it. The heathen bows to a false deity, but the true God he has never known; we commit two evils, inasmuch as we forsake the living God and turn unto idols. May the Lord purge us all from this grievous iniquity!

“The dearest idol I have known,

Whate’er that idol be;

Help me to tear it from thy throne,

And worship only thee.”

EVENING

“Being born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible.”
1 Peter 1:23

Peter most earnestly exhorted the scattered saints to love each other “with a pure heart fervently” and he wisely fetched his argument, not from the law, from nature, or from philosophy, but from that high and divine nature which God hath implanted in his people. Just as some judicious tutor of princes might labour to beget and foster in them a kingly spirit and dignified behaviour, finding arguments in their position and descent, so, looking upon God’s people as heirs of glory, princes of the blood royal, descendants of the King of kings, earth’s truest and oldest aristocracy, Peter saith to them, “See that ye love one another, because of your noble birth, being born of incorruptible seed; because of your pedigree, being descended from God, the Creator of all things; and because of your immortal destiny, for you shall never pass away, though the glory of the flesh shall fade, and even its existence shall cease.” It would be well if, in the spirit of humility, we recognized the true dignity of our regenerated nature, and lived up to it. What is a Christian? If you compare him with a king, he adds priestly sanctity to royal dignity. The king’s royalty often lieth only in his crown, but with a Christian it is infused into his inmost nature. He is as much above his fellows through his new birth, as a man is above the beast that perisheth. Surely he ought to carry himself, in all his dealings, as one who is not of the multitude, but chosen out of the world, distinguished by sovereign grace, written among “the peculiar people” and who therefore cannot grovel in the dust as others, nor live after the manner of the world’s citizens. Let the dignity of your nature, and the brightness of your prospects, O believers in Christ, constrain you to cleave unto holiness, and to avoid the very appearance of evil.

 

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Sitting By a Bush in Broad Sunlight

Sitting by a Bush in Broad Sunlight by Robert Frost

When I spread out my hand here today,
I catch no more than a ray
To feel of between thumb and fingers;
No lasting effect of it lingers.

There was one time and only the one
When dust really took in the sun;
And from that one intake of fire
All creatures still warmly suspire.

And if men have watched a long time
And never seen sun-smitten slime
Again come to life and crawl off,
We not be too ready to scoff.

God once declared he was true
And then took the veil and withdrew,
And remember how final a hush
Then descended of old on the bush.

God once spoke to people by name.
The sun once imparted its flame.
One impulse persists as our breath;
The other persists as our faith.

Bush

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More Glory v. More Notoriety: Take Your Pick

Women must pay for everything. They do get more glory than men for comparable feats, but they also get more notoriety when they crash.

– Amelia Earhart (1897-1937)

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On This Day: May 2

Updated May 1, 2012, 2:28 pm

NYT Front Page

On May 2, 1945, the Soviet Union announced the fall of Berlin and the Allies announced the surrender of Nazi troops in Italy and parts of Austria.
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On May 2, 1903, Benjamin Spock, the American pediatrician whose books on child rearing influenced generations of parents, was born. Following his death on March 15, 1998, his obituary appeared in The Times.

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On This Date

By The Associated Press

1519 Artist Leonardo da Vinci died.
1670 The Hudson Bay Co. was chartered by England’s King Charles II.
1863 Confederate Gen. Thomas “Stonewall” Jackson was accidentally wounded by his own men at Chancellorsville, Va. He died eight days later.
1890 The Oklahoma Territory was organized.
1895 Broadway lyricist Lorenz Hart was born in New York City.
1932 Jack Benny’s first radio show debuted on the NBC Blue Network.
1939 New York Yankees first baseman Lou Gehrig’s streak of 2,130 consecutive games played came to an end when the ailing slugger removed himself from the lineup.
1941 General Mills began shipping a new cereal called “Cheerioats” to six test markets. (The cereal was later renamed “Cheerios.”)
1945 The Soviet Union announced the fall of Berlin and the Allies announced the surrender of Nazi troops in Italy and parts of Austria.
1957 Sen. Joseph R. McCarthy, R-Wis., died at age 48.
1972 J. Edgar Hoover, head of the FBI for 48 years, died at age 77.
1982 The Weather Channel debuted.
1994 Nelson Mandela claimed victory in South Africa’s first democratic elections.
1997 Tony Blair became, at age 44, Britain’s youngest prime minister in 185 years.
2010 European governments and the International Monetary Fund committed to pulling Greece back from the brink of default, agreeing on nearly $1 trillion in emergency loans.

Current Birthdays

By The Associated Press

Christine Baranski, Actress (“The Good Wife”)

Actress Christine Baranski (“The Good Wife”) turns 60 years old today.

AP Photo/Evan Agostini

David Beckham, Soccer player

Soccer player David Beckham turns 37 years old today.

AP Photo/Dan Steinberg

1924 Theodore Bikel, Actor, turns 88
1936 Engelbert Humperdinck, Singer, turns 76
1945 Bianca Jagger, Actress, turns 67
1946 Lesley Gore, Singer, turns 66
1946 David Suchet, Actor, turns 66
1948 Larry Gatlin, Country singer, turns 64
1950 Lou Gramm, Rock singer (Foreigner), turns 62
1972 Dwayne Johnson, Actor, wrestler, turns 40
1983 Gaius Charles, Actor (“Friday Night Lights”), turns 29
1985 Lily Allen, Singer, turns 27
1985 Sarah Hughes, Figure skater, turns 27
1990 Kay Panabaker, Actress (“No Ordinary Family””, turns 22

 

Historic Birthdays

Benjamin Spock 5/2/1903 – 3/15/1998 American pediatrician; wrote influential child-rearing books.Go to obituary »
65 Alessandro Scarlatti 5/2/1660 – 10/24/1725
Italian composer
67 Catherine II 5/2/1729 – 11/17/1796
German-born empress of Russia (1762-96)
86 Henry Martyn Robert 5/2/1837 – 5/11/1923
American army officer; author of “Robert’s Rules of Order”
72 Antonio Maura 5/2/1853 – 12/13/1925
Spanish statesman; prime minister five times between 1903 and 1922
44 Theodor Herzl 5/2/1860 – 7/3/1904
Hungarian journalist; first president of the World Zionist Organization
92 James F. Byrnes 5/2/1879 – 4/9/1972
American politician; secretary of state (1945-7)
30 Vernon Castle 5/2/1887 – 2/15/1918
English-born American dancer
25 Manfred Richthofen 5/2/1892 – 4/21/1918
German fighter pilot in World War I; known as the “Red Baron”
48 Lorenz Hart 5/2/1895 – 11/22/1943
American lyricist
73 Axel Springer 5/2/1912 – 9/22/1985
German publisher; Alex Springer Verlag AG publishing house
70 Satyajit Ray 5/2/1921 – 4/23/1992
Bengali motion-picture director, writer and illustrator